How To Break Up With Someone Before Valentine's Day

Valentines day will soon be around the corner and
many Nigerian couples are busy thinking up new
ways to show their loved one how they really feel.

But this article is not for them, this article is for
those naughty ones who want to avoid the stress
and commitment that comes with being in love.

1. Do an internal evaluation. Really spend some
time to meditate and see if your feelings to resolve
the relationship are due to something temporary,
such as: a petty disagreement, a misunderstanding,
a miscommunication, hearsay, jealous feelings, etc,
or if it is a deal-breaker. Also, find out if you are at
your best in this relationship, or if this relationship
is your downfall. You should feel good being around
your "boo.'" You should feel comfortable and safe.
So, take some time to see if this is what you really
want to do. If it is.

2. Keep it on the "DL." If you have to consult your
bff or your mom, do so, but make sure they keep
your plans private. It's bad enough that Valentine's
Day is coming up, then to make matters worse, the
gossip has circulated and he/she finds out before
you have the time to talk. If everybody has been in
your business in the past, do your best to keep this
business to yourself until you have sealed the deal.

Be mature and have the decency to
3. Talk face to face. There is nothing worse than
finding a "Dear John" letter in an email or on a text.
Just because you are breaking up doesn't mean
you can't be classy or decent. Find a location that
is neutral and isn't crowded--a place that will
provide you with some intimate heart-to-heart
conversation with this sensitive matter.

4. Let it go. When you break-up, let it go. Do not
insist on being "friends" with the person you are
breaking up with. If you see your ex on a date, you
cannot get mad and confront him/her. You ex has a
right to start a new life since you broke it off, and
you have to realize that friendship might complicate
things even more. It is also best to end amicably, if
you can. If you can't then you should never result
to defamation or insulting your exes' character. And
last but not least…

5. Understand what you need. Before you get into
another relationship, understand what you need and
know where you are trying to go with your life. It
doesn't make sense to get into a rebound
relationship only to find out that you are not ready
for another commitment.

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