How to Stop Attracting the Wrong Guy

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What man is attracted
to a woman who
thinks that she’s not
worth anything? You
need to have the
confidence and self-
esteem to project
dateability.
Everyone has positive qualities, even if they
don’t realize it. Okay, so you don’t have a job
or you don’t have a degree or you had a bad
relationship—that doesn’t mean that you
wouldn’t be an understanding,
compassionate, interesting and fun girlfriend.
Everyone deserves a chance to give their best
qualities to a partner, no matter their
circumstances. You need to remember that
you have a lot to offer and soon enough a
handsome man will too!
Step 2: Present a Positive Attitude
Now that you’ve figured out that you deserve
a happy relationship, you need to adjust your
attitude so you can attract one. If you keep
expecting to attract the wrong kind of guy,
you’re projecting low expectations and a
pessimistic attitude about love. So who do
you think will be attracted to that? A
pessimistic guy who isn’t looking to meet
ambitious expectations and who doesn’t want
a lot of boyfriend responsibilities. If you don’t
present a positive attitude, you’re not going
to catch the eye of a positive guy.
There’s a quick tip to help keep your attitude
positive, especially useful for those of you
who hate dating. Approach every situation as
though you’re going to to have a good time.
Arrive to every date confident that the man
on the other side of the table is going to be
the love of your life. Because one of these
times, he will be!
Step 3: Figure Yourself Out
If you’ve mastered the first two steps and
you still can’t seem to land a quality man,
there might be a problem with your process.
Do you know who you’re looking for? I’m not
looking for a list like “Tall, dark and
handsome.” Do you know what kind of
relationship you want? If you haven’t decided
what you’re looking for, how can you expect
to find someone who satisfies you?
You don’t have to settle for being a jerk-
magnet. Use these three steps to change
yourself instead of trying to change a dirtbag
into a quality boyfriend.