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According to the data collected in several
major researches, only 25% of women
climax during s*x with their partner. That
is while over 90% of men say they reach
climax. Thus, gentlemen, it is up to you to
ensure that your lady experiences this
highest level of s*xual satisfaction. These
tips might prove very handy in mastering
the art of pleasuring a woman.
10. Take her off the clock: Just as you’re
concerned about lasting longer, many women
are so self-conscious about taking too long
that they end up faking climax or deciding to
go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over
orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-
imaging study by Swedish researchers shows
that relaxation is the single most important
factor in bringing a woman to climax. So tell
her she has all night. The better you convey
not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but
also appreciation of her s*xual pleasure—
climax or not—the easier it will be for her to
unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show
that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average
woman to reach climax. Going somewhere?
9. Turn her on with your talent: The best
s*x starts long before the clothes come off.
Talent—more than rugged good looks or a
chiseled midsection—is a powerful
aphrodisiac, according to researches (less
surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home
are among women’s biggest turnoffs.)
Demonstrate your sense of humor, for
instance.
8. Speak up when she’s unclad: Women who
worry about the way they look down there
are less likely to climax easily during oral s*x,
according to researches. And a recent study
suggests that women who feel embarrassed
or ashamed about their bodies have less
s*xual experience and are less sexually
assertive.
Clearly, you have everything to gain with
flattery. If you love the way she looks unclad
—and you do, right?—share the news.
7. Always be tender on top: During foreplay,
gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of
her br**sts; these areas are actually more
sensitive than an unaroused areola and
bosom. Gradually move in toward her
bosoms, paying attention to how she
responds. As things heat up, the bosoms will
become flushed with blood, and the sensory
receptors will become primed for direct
stimulation. You’ll kickstart the bloodflow and
lubrication down below, starting her slow
buildup.
6. Learn her key strokes: One thing many
women love during manual stimulation: a
slow buildup. Here’s how to do it: Lie next to
her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just
above her clitoris. Now run your ring and
middle fingers along the length of her outer
lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure
as the tension builds. Cup the area around
her clitoris with your palm to add indirect
stimulation—most women are too sensitive to
receive direct contact early on. As she
becomes aroused, brace your hand on her
pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her
pubic bone, and tease the clitoris with the
middles and tips of your fingers as you move
your entire hand.
5. Change her angle: Explore various types
of penetration to figure out what turns her
on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located
about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her
v**ina. This spongy region swells during
arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with
your fingers. A lot of women find it mind
blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.
4. Use moves that multitask: To maximize
her pleasure, increase the amount of contact
you’ll have with her most sensitive parts.
Here’s one move that will drive her wild: Ask
her to lie on her back, with her legs
stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your
arms around her shoulders, supporting
yourself with your elbows and moving your
chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the
base of your man-hood in contact with her
clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-
down movement instead of in-and-out
penetration. Another great trick: Move your
pubic mound in a circle or up and down
against her clitoris. You’ll get a break from
high-intensity stimulation, and she’ll receive
focused attention where it often matters
most.
3. Learn to sense her climax: Ease into oral
s*x—don’t just attack. First kiss her inner
thighs and her inner and outer lips, then
work your way inside using firm, broad
strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for
a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her
gasps and moans as you experiment with
different techniques. And watch for signs
she’s close to climaxing, such as a subtle
deepening in the color of her labia caused by
increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her
stomach and feel for the muscular
contractions that immediately precede her
climax.
2. Follow her lead: Once you reach your
point of no return, you’ll climax even if
you’re interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-
clad Charly Boy. But your lady could hit the
“off” switch if you stop or change moves
midway to climax.They it when you try new
things, and it’s important to vary your
technique, but once you’ve found a winner,
stick with it until she crosses the finish line.
1. Let her finish first: Stalking the elusive
tandem climax is an admirable goal, but
many women respond better to a “ladies-
first” strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long
time — during thrusting, for example — it
can become too sore or desensitized to
respond to manual or oral stimulation later.
So satisfy her before intercourse. Bonus: A
woman’s climax threshold drops after her
first one, so it’s often easier to bring her to
climax through penetration after she’s
already had one. How does that sound for an
encore?
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