NERDTWIST
An orgasm is such a touchy
subject, when it comes to the
bedroom, there are so many
women who don't orgasm all the
time, and end up faking it more often.
Statistics vary widely, and no one can really tell
what percentage of women fake it or really
experience it. But if one thing's almost certain,
it's the unverified assumption that all women
have faked an orgasm at least once in their
lifetime!
Here are 22 common reasons why women fake
an orgasm.
1. The biggest reason. It's a fake pity orgasm.
You're not arousing her enough to bring her to
climax, and she's given up on achieving an
orgasm. But your woman doesn't want to hurt
your feelings because she cares about you, and
finds it easier to just fake it and end it.
2. She's not in the mood. You're horny and
turned on. But she's not. And she's having sex
only because you want it. She'd probably try to
warm up to the act, but if she doesn't feel like
it, she may just fake it.
3. She knows she's not going to orgasm. This
is psychological, and she probably knows she's
going to fake it even before you penetrate her.
As a guy, you may have experienced a few
occasions yourself when you start having sex
with your girl, and almost immediately know
that you may not last through the sex. And just
like that, sometimes your girl may know she's
not going to orgasm, and she just wants to be
done with it.
4. She's preoccupied. There's something on
her mind, and she's too distracted to enjoy sex.
She may make love to you, but her preoccupied
mind may just distract her from having a real
orgasm.
5. She knows you're trying hard. She's feeling
bad about it, but for some reason, she's just
not able to orgasm. And she doesn't want to
hurt your feelings or land a blow on your
confidence, so she lies to you just to see you
smile proudly.
6. You're boring! Well, let's face it, you may be
rather boring one night. And if she's getting
tired of the to-and-fro and is subduing her
yawns with her palms, it may just be easier to
fake it without being too mean.
7. You're waiting for her. You're almost about
to explode, and she can feel it. You move in and
out of her a few times, and you hold your
breath like you're trying hard to prevent a case
of premature ejaculation, before continuing
again. And your woman, being the sweetheart
that she is, may just fake it to save you from an
awkward spurt!
8. She's embarrassed. She's not able to orgasm
for some reason beyond her knowledge, and
she feels embarrassed by it. And her
embarrassment is making her feel worse and
preventing her from even enjoying the sex. It's
so much easier to just fake it because she
doesn't want you to think it's her fault.
9. Anger issues. She's angry with you, or is
giving you the silent treatment. And you teasing
her and seducing her into having sex isn't
helping, because she'll hate you more for it. But
if she doesn't want to confront the issue or sit
up talking about it, she may find it easier to just
do the deed instead.
10. She's stressed out. Your woman could have
had a long and tiring day, and as much as she
wants to enjoy sex, she may just be too tired to
enjoy it. And if she doesn't want to upset you or
make you feel bad about your performance, she
may just fake it.
11. She's in a hurry. You're initiating sex out of
the blue, and she's got better things to do.
Perhaps, she wants to sleep, watch her favorite
show or get out and do something. What's the
fastest way to wrap sex up? Yeah, fake it!
12. The pressure to make it awesome. It's a
special day and sex is just expected to be
awesome and mind blowing! It could be your
anniversary or a birthday, and if she doesn't
feel great that night, she might just pretend to
be completely turned on and aroused, just to
make sex more memorable for you.
13. She's had her share of fun. A woman
doesn't always have to orgasm to enjoy sex.
Sometimes, she may feel like she's had her
share of fun and may just want to end it
without reaching for an orgasm.
14. Boredom. She's bored with her sex life, and
the things you do just don't excite her anymore.
It's monotonous and boring, and rather than
confront it, she may just resign her mind to the
fact that sex isn't as exciting as it once was!
15. The guy takes too long. Your girl may just
want to finish up because she wants to sleep or
be done with it. And if you're trying really hard
to push her soft spots and make her orgasm,
she may just give in and fake an orgasm just to
end it and go back to sleep.
16. Uncomfortable positions. So you've read
about a new position that you want to try, or
you're suddenly feeling very horny while
watching the television. And you push her down
on a hard surface, contort her body and
penetrate her. She may try to enjoy it, but if it's
too uncomfortable to experience any pleasure
out of it, she may just want to end it with a
fake orgasm.
17. Her sex drive's down. Her sex drive may
have taken a nosedive because of too much
alcohol during the party, or a few pills that she's
been taking recently. And rather than make you
feel bad for not making her orgasm, she may
want to fake it and please you instead.
18. It's that time of the month. Most women
have varying sex drives at different times of the
month. Some women are more aroused easily
when they're ovulating, while a few other
women feel the friskiest a day or two before
their period. And at certain times of the month,
they may feel too mellow to experience a real,
wild orgasm no matter how hard a guy tries.
19. She's never really had an orgasm! Well,
there are many women out there who still don't
know what an orgasm is. They've had sex, and
they've programmed their mind to squeeze
their pelvis before a guy ejaculates. They just
don't know what it feels like to orgasm, and
they don't really care to fix it because they're
too used to it!
20. It's emotional. Girls are far more emotional
than visual when it comes to experiencing
sexual pleasure and orgasms. Perhaps, she just
hasn't reached that stage in the relationship
where she feels comfortable enough to
experience a real, knee buckling orgasm in your
arms.
21. She just wants more. This isn't a guy's fault
really. Maybe you're just dating a girl who's too
demanding. She needs a lot of foreplay and a
lot of sore sex before she actually feels an
orgasm. And since she knows it, she may fake it
once in a while just to make things easier for
you.
22. What did you do?! Did you do something
stupid in bed like stick your finger up her butt
when you know she hates it? Or did you tell her
that you want to have sex with her sister while
she watches while dirty talking to her?
Sometimes, a girl may just fake it and end it
because of something you said or did in bed
because she just doesn't want to continue
having sex anymore.
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